“…that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” -1 Corinthians 7:5 NASB
I’ve always been asked from others about the topic of self control. It’s funny, because it is definitely something I’ve been constantly working on whether it’s not eating that last piece of ice cream cake on a hot summer day, or being on my phone during conversation with friends or family, or even just being able to know what’s a good decision to a rushed decision.
Okay, you’re reading this like, so…you gonna help or what?
I guess even though I struggle with self-control at times, just really reflecting on this, here’s some things that have helped me:
1. PRAY
Conversation with the Lord always helps. Ask for the intercession of the Holy Family, or simply, ask God to help you with your situations.
2. STOP AND THINK
Yup, usually this doesn’t happen, BUT when you get a chance, ask your self, “Is this the right thing to do?” or “I already ate. This is just extra money I’m spending.” OR A VERY IMPORTANT ONE, “Should I go out? I haven’t chilled with my family for a while.”
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3. SPONTANEOUS PRAISE/MANTRA
Especially in times where its all going wrong…OR you just can’t help it…I really feel this helps calm ANY situation, and can give you room to stop and think. FOR example, trying to have self control over anger…I simply repeat, “Jesus, I need You”. It really calms me down and lets me think for a bit about what I’m about to do or say.
SO yeah, a bit of a reflection this week on something I feel God is asking me to work on. Self-Control…or as the BC gambling association says, “Know your limit, play within it.”
Stay faithful, remain hopeful.
Desiderio Domini