Fairy Godmother

When we hear this title we think of someone that grants our wishes and looks out for our well being. As a child, I thought of my aunt like this. Not only was she my aunt, she was also my Godmother. I would see her every few years and she would treat me and sister out or give us money before saying goodbye at the end of the trips. Over the years, visits became less frequent and but it was her life advice that stayed with me.

This past weekend, I took the news hard that she died from congestive heart failure. Upon further reflection, I realized the impact she made on my life choices. Growing up, I was afraid of many things and taking risks. However, it was during one visit she told me about her adventures. I was in awe of her stories. She was already in her 70s but she had traveled to almost every country in the world and would continue to do so as long as her health would allow. She challenged me to do the same with my life. She encouraged me to take risks and explore the world. That I needed to start when I was younger, and not wait like her until she was 50 to start travelling. She believed I needed to enjoy life when I was still young enough to do the things she no longer could.

She celebrated life and lived it to the fullest. I will always cherish the advice she gave me all those years ago, and continue to share it with others even until today. She gave me the courage to pursue the unknown and explore the world and other cultures as she did. To truly live life fiercely, love fully and without fear. To give generously, be faithful and to embrace the time God has given me.